In this time of Advent we are caught up in a spirit of waiting.  We often forget that while we wait for the Birth of Jesus in our hearts and world, God is also waiting for us….to discover Him in creation, to find him anew in one another, to meet him in prayer. A story might help to demonstrate this:


Once there was a young man who wanted to find God, so he went into a beautiful cathedral.  He thought that in this atmosphere he might experience God.  Filled with feelings of God’s closeness, he put his head down on the back of the pew in front of him.


A few minutes later he felt a tapping on his shoulder.  Looking up, he saw an old woman.  “Are you hungry?” she asked.  “I could give you a few dollars to get something to eat.”  Realizing the risk the woman had taken and the simple love that prompted her offer, the man thanked her and said that he was all right.  A few minutes later he left the church, knowing that he had found God in more than one way.


In this Advent season, let us follow the examples given in this little story:

  • When we seek God we will find Him.
  • When we reach out to others and offer to help another in need, we are acting as Jesus would.
  • When we recognize the presence of God in each other, we realize how very blessed we are.

Written by: Sr. Marie Paul Grech SND





Two friends were walking through the desert.  During some point of the journey they had an argument, and one friend slapped the other one in the face.  The one who got slapped was hurt, but without saying anything, wrote in the sand: TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SLAPPED ME IN THE FACE.  They kept on walking until they found an oasis, where they decided to take a swim.  The one who had been slapped got stuck in the mire and started drowning, but the friend saved him.  After he recovered from the near drowning, he wrote on a stone: TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SAVED MY LIFE.


The friend who had slapped and saved his best friend asked him, “After I hurt you, you wrote in the sand and now, you write on a stone.  Why?”  The other friend replied, “When someone hurts us we should write it down in sand where winds of forgiveness can erase it away.  But when someone does something good for us, we must engrave it in stone where no wind can ever erase it.”  Learn to write your hurts in the sand and to carve your benefits in stone. 


They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, but then an entire life to forget them.  We are much happier people if we do not value the things in our life but rather value the people in our life!  As we prepare for the coming of Jesus, Advent gives us a wonderful opportunity to forgive the hurts in our life and to celebrate our blessings!


Written by: Sr. Marie Paul Grech SND


Advent begins Sunday, December 1! Advent is always a time for waiting…unfortunately, all too often we are waiting for Christmas in the commercial sense!  How often do we think about Mary’s waiting for the birth of her Son?  How often do we think about the beautiful opportunity we have to wait with Mary and Joseph?  How often do we remember that Jesus asks to be born again in our hearts, in our lives?  How can we make this Advent different?  We would be unrealistic to say we are going to ignore the commercialism: Christmas songs on the radio, in stores; Christmas movies on TV; shopping for our loved ones and decorating the tree—all of these are part of Christmas preparation, and thus part of Advent.  But what can we add so that the real meaning of Advent is not forgotten?  Can we carve out some time to pray more, read more, share more with our loved ones about what Advent and Christmas mean to us?


Written by: Sr. Marie Paul Grech SND


One day a religion teacher began a class on Jesus by saying to the young children: “Today I am going to tell you about someone whom you all must meet. He’s a person who loves you and cares for you, even more than your own family and friends. He’s a person who’s kinder than the kindest person you know. He’s a person who forgives you, no matter how often you do wrong. No matter what you do wrong, he is always ready to accept you, to love you and to understand.” The teacher noticed a little boy getting more and more excited as he talked. Suddenly the little boy could not hold back any longer. He blurted out, “I know the man you’re talking about. He lives on our street!”

To be a follower of Jesus is to be someone who shows others, in practice, some of what Jesus is like.

During this time of giving thanks, let us be grateful for those in our lives who have shown us what it means to be Jesus…


Written by: Sr. Marie Paul Grech S.N.D



Sunday is the liturgical feast of Christ the King—a feast that I think many Americans might have trouble “connecting with” in the light of our democratic philosophy.  One of the prayers said daily by the sisters in my community celebrates this kingship of Jesus: “Heart of Jesus, King and Center of all hearts, rule thou supreme in our community and in every soul.  Thine we are, O Lord, and thine we will be.”  Archaic language?  Perhaps.  But as a former English teacher, I know that the old English “Thy/Thine” is the familiar form of the pronoun YOU, just like TU is the familiar form of USTED in Spanish.  In this prayer, we recognize that Jesus is the Center of our lives, the one who directs us, the one who takes precedence over every other influence.  As King, Jesus sits at the Father’s right hand and takes on his role as intercessor….a powerful intercessor indeed!

Written by: Sr. Marie Paul Grech SND



An old native in New Guinea used to read Gospel stories to outpatients while they waited to be treated at the missionary clinic.  One day he experienced trouble reading.  The doctor checked his eyes and found that the man was rapidly going blind.  The next day the old man didn’t show up at the hospital.  Someone said he had gone off to the hills alone.  A week later a boy led the doctor to the old man’s hideout.  “What are you doing here?” asked the doctor.  The old man replied, “While I still have my sight, I wanted to spend all my time memorizing stories and passages from the Bible.  When I lose my sight completely, I’ll be back at the hospital again, telling outpatients about Jesus.”


What can I do this week to share my faith in Jesus?  Do I use the opportunities I have to really live the Good News?

Written by: Sr. Marie Paul Grech SND


Feast of All Saints


This month gives us many reasons to think about “how we live.”—Today we celebrate the feast of All Saints…and this focuses on those whose lives on earth were lived in such a way that they are now spending eternity with our good and gracious God.  Our saints, whether Saints or saints, known to us or only a name on a page, teach us that living a life centered in God makes all the difference.  The celebration of All Souls tomorrow is so very similar as we continue to pray for those who have died that they too may enjoy the eternal life promised by our God.

We are called to deepen our faith, enhance our understanding of the things of God, and be in relationship with the God who creates us and calls us!  This month we are called to live in a spirit of gratitude…we have nothing that has not come to us from the hands of our generous God!  Our very life, our families, our friends, our gifts and talents, our possessions—everything that we have, we have because our God has blessed us.  It is our job to give thanks, to live gratefully!  How will we celebrate Thanksgiving?  With food, family, football—yes, of course!  And hopefully, also with faith and at least a little time set aside for expressing gratitude to God and to those around us!  Our Eucharist (the word means “thanksgiving”) is a wonderful way to make that gratitude tangible…

May this month be lived in a spirit of openness to all that the good God calls you to be!

Written by: Sr. Marie Paul Grech SND